Playing The Romantic Just A Little Too Hard
It is important that we grow up with the understanding that we don’t get everything we want out of life. Sometimes we need to really fight for our desires while sometimes we just have to find a different mode of dealing. We do not want regrets. We want to know that we stood up and we went after the things that mattered most to us, regardless of the outcome.
The sweet sound of an Ibanez electric guitar under a window would once have been seen as a beautiful serenade. Today, you can be arrested. Losing the love relationship of your life can be very difficult, and when you want to get it back, you’re willing to go pretty far.
Of course, there is the alternative of gathering everyone from the drummer to the fastest fingers on the Ibanez electric guitar and throwing down your version of a romantic CD. Some people call that obsessed while others call it sweet. Before you toss the Ibanez acoustic electric guitar aside and start thinking of new ideas, try for something right in the middle.
Of course, you can translate the guitars into any form of communication that you want. The key is to recognize what is over the top and what is reasonable. When you are particularly emotional you might not be thinking or acting quite as clearly as perhaps you would otherwise. Slow down. Find a middle ground. Respect your love relationship enough to let it take its natural course, including the need for breathing room.
A single act of devotion can be seen as an attempt to be expressive. Multiple acts, especially intimate or intrusive acts, can be seen as stalking. It’s hard to respect the request that we leave the one we feel we were meant to be with alone when we have such a driving force of love to offer. When you violate personal space on a repetitive basis you can be pretty much assured that no one finds it romantic.
Otherwise, you can find that your intentions are not well understood and that you have stepped over the boundary of what others consider reasonable. It is not romantic to stalk somebody, even if your intentions are pure. It is not romantic to hassle your love even if you are just trying to get one sentence out of your mouth.
Romantic gestures are a sweet plea when a love relationship is dying. Obsessive gestures can be downright scary for the recipient. Take a step back, give it a little room. The most romantic move in the world doesn’t matter if it is never heard.
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